Episode# 9 ; Maui Shark Attack Survivor and the Sacred Work of Coming Home to Yourself
Kaiulani Cole
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Maui Shark Attack Survivor Shares Her Real Story-Surfing, Healing, & Saying Yes to Life!
🎙️ with Kaiulani Cole
What happens when your worst year becomes the beginning of something sacred?
In 2023, writer, mother, teacher, and surfer Kaiulani Cole was attacked by a shark while surfing near her home in Maui. But this is not just a story about survival — it’s about what comes after.
It’s a story of healing, awakening, and remembering who you truly are.
With the guidance of her Hawaiian mentor Zelli, Kaiulani began a deep process of spiritual recovery — one that brought her back to her body, her voice, her culture, and her calling. In Hawaiian tradition, the shark is considered an ‘aumākua — a guardian spirit. What at first seemed like a near-death experience soon revealed itself to be something more: a reckoning, a return, and a powerful wake-up call to step back into her sacred work.
We also hear about Kaiulani’s daughter Malia, whose own TEDx talk shares another perspective of resilience, and the bond between mother and daughter in the face of profound challenge.
This episode is an invitation into the deeper waters of healing. It’s a reminder that the hardest moments of our lives can sometimes be the most meaningful — and that saying yes to life, again and again, is one of the bravest things we can do.
If you’ve ever felt cracked open by life, this story will meet you right where you are.
🌀 You are not broken. You are becoming.
In this episode, you’ll hear:
The moment Kaiulani was struck by what felt like “a giant muscle” in the water
What it’s like to survive a shark attack—and what came after
The spiritual meaning her mentor Zelli shared: “You have big work to do”
How grief, trauma, and deep intuition wove through her recovery
Rebuilding safety in the very place she was attacked
The power of community, ceremony, and honoring your story
Why fear grew when she stopped going into the water
How her daughter Malia’s TED Talk became part of their healing
What Kaiulani wants you to know about aliveness, loss, and rising again
Why saying “yes to life” is at the heart of her brave story
⏱ Timestamps:
00:00 – Welcome + setting the scene in Maui with Kaiulani Cole
05:03 – The shark attack: “I felt myself get slammed by a giant muscle”
07:12 – Beginning the healing process: trauma, grief, and community
09:25 – Meeting Bethany Hamilton and recognizing a shared experience
13:49 – Reflections on survival, intuitive knowing, and letting go
18:39 – Lessons from Mano (the shark) and ancestral teachings
29:25 – The long journey of recovery—and choosing to rise
34:39 – Healing in ceremony, sisterhood, and storytelling
39:09 – Getting back in the ocean and reclaiming joy
52:02 – Listening to intuition and embracing the sacred work
BIO:
Born on a lava field in the Puna District of the Big Island of Hawai’i, Kai was raised in the 80s and 90s in punk rock, working-class Santa Cruz, California. She took up surfing at the age of 10 and has spent her life chasing waves all over the world.
She was one of three women who led her UC Santa Barbara team to the College National Championship three years in a row. A public elementary school teacher for fifteen years, Kai taught hundreds of kindergarten through 3rd graders not only to read and write, but to live with integrity and reverence.
Kai has taken Mary Oliver’s question quite seriously: “Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?
She has paraglided in Argentina, skydived in New Zealand, climbed pyramids in Mexico, and danced under exploding fireworks on New Years Eve on Copacabana Beach. She’s held ceremony at Machu Picchu, backpacked through Patagonia, pioneered a surf spot in Panama, been detained in customs in the Miami airport, and had lunch barefoot in the grass with the Princess of Rapa Nui. She’s explored castles in Spain and walked the Path of the Gods in Italy, held koalas in Australia, gone riverrafting in the Costa Rican rainforest, shared bananas with monkeys on Bali, and slept many a night in a volcano. She regularly listens to whales commune 70 feet underwater and sleeps in the Haeakala crater in her home on Maui. She’s danced with a shark and she lived to tell you about it today.
Kai is currently following her dream of becoming a writer and is working on her first memoir. She’s married to the love of her life, Christer, the father of her two amazing daughters, Malia Moon, 13, and Sydney Sun, 10. She lives on the North Shore of Maui with her family and their pup, Zioness.
How to Connect with Kaulani:
Substack: Kaiulani Cole
Instagram: @moonsunmamakai
Kauai Writers Conference Spoken Word
Daily Blast TV interview
Blog: MoonSunMamaKai
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